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Striking the Father

Striking the Father


Abu Quhafah, the father of Abu Bakr, was one of the enemies of the Holy Prophet (s.a.w.).  Once, he abused the Prophet (s.a.w.) and so, his son Abu Bakr took hold of him and pounded him against the door.

When the news of this incident reached the ears of the Holy Prophet (s.a.w), he called for Abu Bakr and asked:

“Did you do such a thing to your father?”

Abu Bakr replied in the affirmative.

The Holy Prophet (s.a.w.) then said, “Go away, but from now on, do not behave in this manner with your father.”

Daastaan-ha Wa Pand-ha, vol. 10, pg. 128; Wasaail al-Shia’h, vol. 1, pg. 115 (Old Publication)

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The Truthful Barber

The Truthful Barber

The distinguished scholar, Sheikh Baqir Kadhimi, who lived near Najaf-e-Ashraf, narrates that a truthful barber, once related the following story:

I had an old father, whom I served diligently.  I exercised such great care never to be neglectful towards him, that I would even place water for him in the toilet and remain in wait outside till he emerged.  All throughout (the week) I would be watchful of him, except on Wednesday evenings when I would proceed to Masjid-e-Sahlah hoping to meet Imam    Mahdi (a.s.).

One Wednesday I was very busy and did not find a spare moment until it was almost sunset.  Nevertheless, I set off towards Masjid-e-Sahlah alone in the dark.

It was a moonlit night and I still had one third of the journey to cover when suddenly I observed an Arab, seated on a horse, coming towards me.  I said to myself, “This Arab is surely going to loot me”, but when he had come closer, he spoke in the local dialect, and sought to know where I was heading for.

I told him that I intended to go to Masjid-e-Sahlah, whereupon he inquired if I had anything with me to eat. When I replied that I did not, he spoke with some sternness, and said:

“You have some food in your pocket”.

Putting my hand into my pocket, I found some raisins, which I had purchased for my son but had forgotten to give him.

The Arab then said:  “I recommend you to serve your father”, and, repeating this three times, he suddenly disappeared.

It was only later that I realized that it was Imam Mahdi (a.s.) himself that I had seen and that he was not pleased that I stopped serving my father, even for the purpose of going to Masjid-e-Sahlah on Wednesday evenings.

 Muntahal Aa’maal, vol. 2, pg. 476; Najm al-Thaaqib

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The Curse of a Mother

The Curse of a Mother

 In the tribe of Bani Israel, there lived a pious person by the name of Jareeh, who used to engage himself in God’s worship, in his monastery.  One day, his mother approached him while he was busy in prayer and, as a result, he did not respond to her.  She approached him for a second time, but again, Jareeh did not answer.

When this happened for the third time, she became angry and cursed him saying, “I pray to God that He does not help you!”

The next day a prostitute came up to his monastery and giving birth to a child there, declared:

“This is Jareeh’s child whom I have given birth to.”

This created uproar among the people, who thought:The very person, who used to rebuke us for fornication, has committed it himself.”  The king ordered him to be sent to the gallows.

When Jareeh’s mother came to know of this, she began beating her face in distress whereupon he said to her, “Keep quiet, for it is due to your curse that I find myself in this predicament.”

The people asked him, “O’ Jareeh!  How can we know that you speak the truth?”

He told them to bring the child to him.

When the child was brought, he prayed and then questioned the child, “Who is your father?”  The child, with divine power and permission, said, “My father is such and such a shepherd belonging to such and such a tribe.”

This incident saved Jareeh’s life after which he vowed never to separate from his mother and to serve her throughout her life.

Namunah-e-Ma’arif, vol. 2, pg. 548; Hayaat Al-Quloob, vol. 1, pg. 482.

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The Companion of Prophet Musa (a.s.) in Paradise

The Companion of Prophet Musa (a.s.) in Paradise


Once, while conversing with God, Prophet Musa (a.s.) requested: 

“O’ Lord!  I desire to meet the person, who is to be my companion in Paradise.”

Jibraeel descended and informed him that his companion was to be a butcher who lived in a certain place.  Prophet Musa (a.s.) set out in search of him and arrived at his shop, when he noticed a youth, resembling a night watchman, busy selling meat.

When night fell, the youth took some meat and proceeded towards his house.  Musa (a.s.) followed him till they reached there.

Musa (a.s.) approached the youth and said, “Would you not like to have a guest?”  The youth willingly agreed and took him inside. 

Musa (a.s.) watched the youth preparing some food.  When he had finished, he brought down a large basket from the upper storey.   Bringing out an old and wizened woman from inside it, he washed her and then proceeded to feed her with his own hands. When the youth was about to carry the basket back to its original place, Musa (a.s.) noticed the old lady’s lips move as she mumbled something incomprehensible.  The youth then brought food for him and both of them ate their dinner.

Musa inquired, “What is your relation with this old lady?”

The youth replied, “She is my mother and since my financial state does not allow me to purchase a slave-girl for her, I myself strive to serve and look after her.”

Musa questioned further, “What did your mother mumble before you took her upstairs?”

He responded, “Whenever I wash her and feed her, she prays:  May God forgive you and place you in the company and in the rank of Prophet Musa (a.s.) in Paradise.”

Hearing this, Musa (a.s.) said, “O’ Youth!  I give you glad tidings; God has accepted your mother’s prayers and Jibraeel has informed me that you shall be my companion in Paradise!”

Pand-e-Taareekh, vol. 1, pg. 68; Tuhfa-e-Shaahi (Faadhil Kaashifi).

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The Mother’s Pleasure

The Mother’s Pleasure

The Holy Prophet (s.a.w.) approached a youth who was dying and said to him: “O’ Youth! Say ‘Laa ilaaha illallah”,but the youth’s tongue would not move and he was unable to speak the sentence.

The Holy Prophet (s.a.w.)asked the gathering crowd if the youth’s mother was present.  A lady, who stood near the head of the dying person, stepped forward and said she was his mother.

The Holy Prophet (s.a.w.) asked her if she was pleased with her son to which she responded: “No.  I have not spoken to him for the past six years.”

He said, “O’ Lady!  Forgive him and be pleased with him.”

The lady agreed and said, “For your sake, I forgive him.  May God be pleased with him!”

The Holy Prophet (s.a.w.) again turned to the youth and asked him to testify to the Unity of God and this time, having procured his mother’s pleasure, the youth was able to do so.

The Holy Prophet (s.a.w.) asked him, “O’ Youth!  What do you witness at this moment?”

He said, “I see an extremely ugly person who has a foul odour coming from him and who is waiting to strangle me.”

The Prophet (s.a.w.) then instructed the youth to recite the following supplication: O’ He, Who accepts trivial (good) deeds and disregards the immense sins!  Accept from me my trivial (good) deeds and disregard my immense sins, for you are the All-Forgiving and the All-Merciful.

When the youth had recited this supplication, the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him and his holy progeny) asked him once more what he was witnessing.

He replied, “I now see a man with a luminous and pleasing appearance.  He is wearing beautiful clothes and possesses an enchanting fragrance.  He is exhibiting kindness andcourtesy towards me”.(Having said this, the youth passed away) Darshai Az Zindagi-e-Payaambar, pg. 116; Al-Amaali (Sheikh Al-Tusi), vol. 1, pg. 63.

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